Show me the path where I should walk, O Lord
To you, O Lord, I lift up my soul. I trust in You, my God! Show me the path where I should walk, O Lord Point out the right road for me to follow. Lead me by your truth and teach me for You are the God who saves me. All day long I put my hope in You. Remember O Lord your unfailing love and compassion which you have shown from long ages past. Forgive the rebellious sins of my youth…Archive for kids
change in construction project plans…
Quite awhile back I talked about expanding my kids’ clubhouse… which didn’t work out that way. Initally I changed plans to build a separate treehouse, but then it became too big.
So, a few weeks back I decided to just make a small one and a friend provided some leftover wood… and here’s the result:
It was quite a bit of fun building!
what a beautiful day
Many people have commented to me over the past few months ‘how hard it must be not to drive.’ At first I really didn’t know what to say; then later it started getting a bit on the annoying side to hear this repeatedly. Not to say there were not plenty of challenges over the past few months though, but I’ve come to the conclusion that this life change that has happened is a REALLY good thing (honestly not being able to drive is really good for slowing down your life – at least for mine at this juncture!). Read the rest of this entry »
Kids: free play and their imagination
While driving in this morning, I was listening to NPR and heard a segment talking the Mickey Mouse show that first aired something like 50 years ago, and how they figure that moment and everything after it has changed lives of children and how they play. Clearly, I’m leaving out a lot of details but am busy at work and just can’t remember all that …
But what I do recall was that they identified that before then, child’s play involved the kid’s imagination immensely, since it was more about the activity than the toys involved. The kid used things as the props for whatever they were doing. Now the toys direct the activity.
My sentiments have been that I’d rather the kids not have so much toys. I really don’t have a lucid rationale as to why – but this kind-of explains it a bit for me. I do agree that I’d rather them come up with their own activities – or at least not have toys that restrain them to using it in a single specific manner only. I never really noticed it – but I do rather prefer their toys that aren’t so specific – you know ones where they can do all kinds of different things and let their imagination run a little bit more freely. Like art stuff, lincoln logs, legos, tea sets, etc. Playing outside or going down to a park. I’m sure that at times it’s probably not so great that I’m a little (some might argue on my wording of “little”) controlling over this, but I’m quite sure that as they get older this will change and I [hope] will release a bit.
My hope is that we are encouraging their imagination to run wild a bit more though. I remember as a kid playing in the woods a lot over the summer. Playing around in a tree (and falling out of it once) that must have had at least 10 years worth of kids nailing wood planks onto it. Building dams in a little stream a lot. Petting the horses. Man – my brother and I (along with some of his friends) even made some “movies” (well, 5-10 minutes long but to us they were definitely movies) back there. Mind you – this was private property and I definitely was not supposed to be there (and was run off a few times by the owner). Definitely not “safe” by anyone’s standards (c’mon … I fell out of a tree!), especially now.
2/28/2008 UPDATE: This morning I listened to another NPR segment relating to this segment – I won’t comment [at least yet] about that content, but I did hear what URL to go to about it (and maybe the segment I wrote about above): NPR – Your Health. I will assume that soon enough references those segments won’t be there, so maybe I should just directly link to some in the Your Health section right now. So here’s a few to ponder on:
- Old-Fashioned Play Builds Serious Skills (this is the segment I wrote about)
- Creative Play Makes for Kids in Control
- Q&A: The Best Kind of Play for Kids
Oh and if you’re into this sort of stuff, and want to add another feed to your feed list – here’s NPR Your Health RSS feed…
Chuck E Cheese and cameras
My father-in-law is in town for a few days. Every time my in-laws are visiting, they always want to take the kids to Chuck E Cheese – pretty usual stuff. But… have you ever noticed how many parents are there with cameras taking pictures of their kids? I didn’t really think about it much until last night, when I must have seen around five separate parents with a camera – and keep in mind, we’re talking about on a Tuesday night! The place was almost empty
Is it just me or is that a bit odd? Don’t get me wrong here – I’m usually one of those parents carrying a camera taking pictures of my kids almost everywhere, but only once at Chuck E Cheese. I guess I more like taking pictures at a park like Maymont or something…
5 dangerous things to let your kids do…
Video here – from a guy who runs the Tinkering School. I don’t know about you, but you’d probably only consider a bunch of this stuff if you have ever heard of MAKE, wouldn’t you?
Still, made me think about taking apart a laptop I recently got from Richmond Freecycle with my kids and letting them play around. It is missing a hard drive. I gave one (there was two) to my boss and in the proces of showing someone else, got an old laptop hard drive…. sooo maybe I will just not take apart the laptop, but actually use it



