I’m not saying but… hey it’s sex. Read the starter Christianity Today article titled Porn’s strangehold. Here’s a clip:
Stigma and fear work against Christians who wish to address this issue in the community of their church. John himself bears witness to this reality: He became motivated to write about sex addiction after his pastor stonewalled his request to start a confidential men’s accountability group.
For a little more depth to the issue, check out these CT articles as well:
Holding a public forum with some guys that know the issue apparently doesn’t work so well (but read my notes anyway!) – and I doubt this would either…. but honestly this is an issue. Problem is if you are willing to admit it, how’s going to give you the support? Honesty is really needed for something like this, and only in a small group.